Joy In The Mourning
Chrissy Mafrige Chrissy Mafrige

Joy In The Mourning

A wail escapes that echos off the tile. This is my new normal.

These days I’m ok with the damp eyes, the slow roll of tears down my face, finding myself sobbing, a snotty heap laying in the middle of a cold, damp floor. My wails no longer startle my dogs or my family.

Weeping may come for the night friend but joy does comes in the mourning.

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Sprinkles of Tiny Miracles
Chrissy Mafrige-Cogdell Chrissy Mafrige-Cogdell

Sprinkles of Tiny Miracles

We headed into the new year like most, with great anticipation of new beginnings, do overs, start overs. 2021 unfolded with a bang and then the wave threw us back into the desert of loss and heartache.


We had walked through this desert frequently over the past ten years. We knew the heat would feel intense and life would feel parched for a while. Then, all of a sudden…

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These Dry Bones
Pain, Marriage Chrissy Mafrige-Cogdell Pain, Marriage Chrissy Mafrige-Cogdell

These Dry Bones

Do you ever feel like you walked into the valley of daily life and struggles and the heat feels as if it is burning your flesh off? The heat of hurt, rejection, fear, loneliness, job loss, financial burdens, broken marriage, loss of hope? Do you feel that if you don’t get relief soon you will just be a mere skeleton of yourself...all your flesh stripped off?

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